How to make friends and influence people.

How do you move 1400km’s away from your friends and family at the age of 34..... And 6 years later you realise that maybe that 48kg’s you gained may have something to do with this life you have been “dumped” into.  That the social, intellectual stimulation of your past is just missing..... suddenly you have a void.  
No.... it couldn’t be that!?